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Wednesday, April 21, 2010

First, let me say THANK YOU to all the wonderful women who entered this past week's contest for a scholarship to She Speaks.  We had approximately 150 submissions!  We were overjoyed.  A team of P31 Woman editors prayerfully reviewed every submission.  Then we narrowed it down to eight finalists and then one winner.  It was tough.  I cried.  I wanted everyone to win, because I KNEW that each one of you deserves to be at She Speaks.  And I pray that God makes a way for each woman who is supposed to be there. 

With that said, I'm happy to annouce that Kelly Soerens is the winner of the scholarship!  Kelly's article, "Grace for Grace's Mom" will also appear in the August issue of the P31 Woman Magazine. 

We also had some honorable mentions.  These ladies submitted wonderful articles which will also be published throughout the next year:

Kathy Buchanan
Amber Ford
Sallie Hagen
Tracy Nunes
Joanne Reese
Stephanie Shott
Beverly Van Gorder

By now everyone who submitted an article should have received a personal letter from one of the team.  We felt that was important to show you honor and respect for the effort you made.  Thank you!

If you can believe it, Proverbs 31 is giving away yet another scholarship to She Speaks!  We are having so much fun sharing the generosity of author and mentor Cecil Murphey.  It's thanks to him that we have these scholarships to the conference.   Please send him a note of thanks if you think of it.  Here's a link to his website, "The Man Behind the Words."

Keep reading to discover how to enter.  First a word about the She Speaks Conference itself. 

I have the privilege of being on the founding leadership team for the conference.  You know God is up to something when He takes a group of willing, but inexperienced women, and calls them to something much, much bigger than themselves. 

That's how God keeps getting all the glory year after year - we know in our own strength and power we couldn't make She Speaks happen. 

Most of you know that I'm a writer by training (degree in Journalism from AZ State University) and career (public relations).  However, the first few years at She Speaks I actually had to lead one of the speaking groups.  That was before we had a writer's track.  Each year I begged to not lead a group.  It's not that I didn't like leading the group, or hearing the women speak.  But I stayed up all night filling out the critique forms for each of them.  One year I sat on the toilet (with the lid down) for hours into the middle of the morning so I didn't wake up my roommate.  I agonized, and agonized, over those forms. I wanted to give the best, most helpful feedback I could.

Finally, we had a writer's track, and I was relieved of my speaking duties and could pour myself into what I love.  I have so many great memories of She Speaks.  I've met life-long friends, been inspired by the finest professionals in Christian publishing, and gotten two book contracts.

My favorite times, however, are when I'm meeting with the writers.  I love the critique groups on Friday night where women get to practice giving and receiving constructive feedback.  I love encouraging someone who is nervous about her meeting with a publisher.  I love getting new ideas for ministry from women with far more wisdom and experience than I have.

One great memory was the year I taught a grammar lesson for all the writers.  You have never seen so many women thrilled to learn how to properly use a semi-colon or hyphen.  We were giddy with delight.  THAT'S how you know you are a writer!

But one memory that tops them all, was the year there was another conference being held in the same hotel.  This was way back when we couldn't reserve all the meeting space.  That year, we shared the hotel with the an unusual Miss North Carolina pageant.  The contestants arms and legs looked unusually muscular and by 5 p.m. they had interesting shadows on their chins.  Apparently we were sharing the hotel with men ... dressed as women. 

That's enough about She Speaks in the past.  Now that we fill up the conference center, I can promise you there won't be any surprises like that.

Now I want to focus on the She Speaks of the future.  And I hope that includes you!

As I mentioned at the top of this blog, today you have another chance to win a scholarship to She Speaks.  There are only a few rules.  This is for women who have never attended She Speaks and who feel called to speak. And, it is for women who would otherwise not be able to attend. If you can afford the conference – please do not enter to win a scholarship.

To enter, please post a comment today through Friday 4/23 at midnight.  The comment should briefly tell us what winning would mean to you in answering God’s call to speak.

Then on Monday, a winner will be chosen at random and announced on the home page of http://www.proverbs31.org/ some time during the day. 

All of the Proverbs 31 speakers are going to be participating in this event today and tomorrow.  To increase your chances of winning, visit all of our blogs and comment.   It's going to be crazy!!!  Insane!!  And more fun than a barrel of monkeys!!   You know, the cute monkeys ... those little spider ones.  Yeah.  More fun than those.  Definitely more fun than sitting on a toilet seat all night and filling out speaking critiques.  (hee, hee)

Here's a list of all my P31 friends who are participating:

Lysa http://www.lysaterkeurst.com/

Wendy Blight http://www.wendyblight.com/

Shari http://www.sharibraendel.com/

Micca http://www.miccacampbell.com/

Whitney http://www.whitneycapps.blogspot.com/

Amy http://www.amycarroll.org/

Melanie http://www.melaniechitwood.com/

Lynn http://www.lynncowell.blogspot.com/

Karen http://www.karenehman.com/

Suzie http://www.tsuzanneeller.com/


















I think that's it.  Leave a message on my blog, then get going to my friends' blogs. 

On your mark, get set, go!

In His Love,
Glynnis 





83 comments:

Shelly said...

Glynnis,

I'm that girl: the one who needs to learn how to properly use colons and semicolons in her writing!!! : ) I was just researching that the other day!

Writing is my first love; my outlet! Speaking is where God is leading me. Writing, I know. Speaking is WAY out of my comfort zone.

God has been nudging me to attend She Speaks for about a year: I just didn't recognize that it was Him ( http://shellysc.blogspot.com/2010/03/shelly-says-he-speaks-will-she-speak.html ).

Just last month, He sent me a billboard instead of a sign. March 9th of this year, I got it!

I don't know why He picked me.

I don't know why He wants me to speak.

I just know He does and that He will equip me.

I feel that Spe Speaks is definitely part of my journey, but I just don't know how I'm gonna get there because my husband is without full-time work and has been since December '08.

Financially, I can't make it...

BUT with God, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE!

Please consider me for the scholarship.

God is preparing me for a wildfire. While I'm scared (in a good way), I know that it will be a cleansing fire and new growth will appear from the ashes!

http://shellysc.blogspot.com/

Stacy @ Heartprints of God said...

CONGRATULATIONS to ALL the winners of the most recent She Speaks Scholarship Giveaway. :) I can't wait to read your articles! God's richest blessings on each of you as you write for HIM and fulfill His call on your life!

~Stacy

Tea with Tiffany said...

A BIG congrats to Kelly for winning the scholarship and congrats to all the other writers who were picked for the P31 magazine. :) God is up to something good with all these ladies and their words.

************

As for why I'd love to win, I've never had any speaking training yet. As a speaker, I'd love to learn more about the craft. But above that, I'd love to be a small part of what God is doing in She Speaks. I'd love to meet new friends and pray and make those life changing memories together.

Kim said...

I truly believe that God has given each one of us a unique testimony to tell. Whether you speak to an audience of one or one-thousand, His message MUST be shared. I am ready to proclaim the message that I have been given. This is my season to move beyond self and to God's level of beyond beyond!

His,
Kim

pinkdaisyjane said...

I felt called to teach women since a very powerful experience in 1998- a true Holy Spirit encounter. Since then, I've had many opportunities, small and large, to teach my sisters and even have had a few small speaking engagements. I want nothing more than to know how to do a better job, so that I can do a better job of getting out of the way and letting God do His thing in me! I feel that She Speaks would do that for me!

Heatherly Sylvia
pinkdaisyjane at hotmail dot com

Jerralea said...

My dream has always been to be a Christian women's author and speaker so that is why I'd love to come to She Speaks - a conference that addresses both parts of my dream!

I'm more comfortable speaking as I am an adult Sunday School teacher yet it's a lot different to speak to a small group rather than a large group.


I know God is leading me in these endeavors!

Thanks for all the scholarship opportunities. I will be like the persistent widow in scripture and never give up!

Natasha Dyer said...

The She Speaks Conference is for me, no doubt about it. My desire to write for the Christian market is strong, but I often feel stuck at how to go about it. Being able to meet others who are already doing what I now believe I can do, is just what I need right now.

Thanks for all of the scholarship opportunities and for the leadership team behind this venture.

Anonymous said...

She Speaks! I'd LOVE to attend this Conference (and win a scholarship) because, by God's calling, I've been asked to 'step up my game' and go from writer, editor, blogger - to speaker.

Here's my story. I have been a Christian-genre writer, editor, and publicist for many years. I worked for my wonderful church (Lake Pointe Church, Rockwall, Texas) for six years as editor-in-chief, lead writer, for their magazine. It shared all the good stuff going on within and through our congregation. It was such a blessing to prepare each time! But God called me out - out into the wonderful world of freelance, where my ministry focus could expand to His entire Church, not just the one I attend/worked for. So, I quit my day job. I have been freelancing "on the side" for 12 years and have edited many books written by Christian authors (some listed on my new blog at writervoice1.wordpress.com). Then, one week later, my mentor (and a client) Thelma Wells, A Woman of God Ministries, asked me to do the unthinkable: she asked me to join her and others on TV and on a Webcast University that she is preparing (she's a busy, busy lady for God!). I can't say no - nor do I want to - but I have no speaking training. Teaching Bible study for 7 years has given me lots of confidence, but I've never taped a presentation nor stood in front of a crowd larger than 50. I want to take this next step - to speak - and allow God to use me as He has prepared. And, ladies, I do believe He is preparing me for Kingdom work!
I know graduates of She Speaks!, namely author Mary DeMuth, and would love the chance to enhance my profile to include SPEAKING for Him! It would be a wonderful adventure and the fulfillment of a tugging that I've not been able to ignore.
Thank you for making this contest available. I'm sure whomever wins will be the RIGHT choice! Blessings to you today in all you do for His kingdom!
Amy Van Vleck, Rockwall, Texas
write-way@hotmail.com
amy-v@hotmail.com

FYI - being newly "self-employed" and my husband tentatively unemployed, there's no way I could afford to attend without assistance. Thanks again for the chance to WIN!

Unknown said...

God has provided a few opportunities over the years allowing me to teach and speak. I always get a thrill from speaking because God provides such peace and guides my words. However, just thinking about the prospect of being on the "front lines" and opening myself up to the criticism and the scrutiny that one bares serving in this capacity, almost paralyzes me with fear. And though I know God equips anyone He desires to use, I still feel insecure about my abilities.

The She Speaks Conference has always interested me but time and money kept the door closed on this opportunity. This year was no different because I was scheduled to participate in the International Hearts at Home Conference in Europe. The conference had to be cancelled due to the volcanic ash. This in turn, opened up the time needed to attend the She Speaks Conference. And now this contest has presented me with the chance to overcome the financial burden. So I feel as if God is telling me to "get out of the boat."

So here I am, following God's orders, trying to keep my eyes on Him and not the fear that is threatening to overwhelm me. Thank you so much for this opportunity.

Anonymous said...

I'm not sure what the specifics are, but I know God is.
I'm not sure where the destination is, but I know He is.
All that I'm sure of is that He is moving in me, working in me, preparing me, and beginning to open doors that are beckoning me to enter. It's due to those recognitions that I am stepping out, beyond my fears and entering this giveaway.

Lord, if it is in Your will for me to attend She Speaks, I pray for the door to be opened and for the courage to leap through with abundant faith. I pray for each woman entering, that You will clearly manifest Your way and Your will for their lives.

Anonymous said...

My roommate went to She Speaks last year. We were not roommates when she signed up for the conference, but by the time it rolled around I was super jealous I wasn’t going too. She was a little timid at first, but it totally changed her and gave her a boldness I hadn’t seen in her before. So, this whole year, I’ve been wondering how I could find a way to go myself.
I don’t have the money…like a lot of people these days. I do have a heart for women. I’m developing a love for writing that I don’t understand. I have always been a bit of a performer so I’m comfortable speaking/talking with people, but I have no training in either. I’m not sure where God is directing me, but I know I need some honing in both these areas to get there.
Lots of potential…needing some direction.
~Laura
laurarmullen.wordpress.com

Misti Gil said...

God has been nudging. He's got me writing devotional blogs for women; now I'm feeling a nudge towards an eventual teaching ministry. I'm sure this will include speaking at some point. I don't know when, but I do know it is my responsibility to become ready for the call when it comes. Scary but exciting. I was a high school teacher before I was a stay home mom, but getting up in front of a group of my peers to teach them the Word of God is intimidating. I would like to gain some confidence here, and I believe She Speaks could do that. With my husband in full-time ministry, your scholarship would allow me to attend when I otherwise would not be able. Pick me!!

Misti Gil
wallsdown@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

God led me to the Proverbs31 site today! I am thrilled to be considered for a scholarship to SheSpeaks, as our finances on my husband's retirement income are adequate for daily living, but certainly not overflowing. I know God has given me a passion for ministering to women by encouraging them in their personal walks with God. Whether it's through a platform of leading Bible studies and small groups or stepping out into a broader speaking role remains to be seen, but I know God is preparing me for something more. I can't wait to see what is in store!

Rachel Binney
hoek73@yahoo.com

Shelly said...

I am so overwhelmed and stirred in my spirit from reading the stories and personal testimonies on all of the different P31 blogs I've visited this morning....thank you all for sharing!

Now for generic contest entry spill that I'm posting on several blogs! haha....

I was very excited to have the opportunity to enter the contest for the writing scholarship...so excited, in fact, that I dreamed up the wrong deadline date and missed submitting my entry. (sigh.) Perhaps, this is my second chance! Or, perhaps, my entering has nothing to do with the contest and everything to do with saying the words again. (Kind of like cleaning your coffee pot...sometimes you just need to do it.) So, with that said....I feel that I am called to speak (even though I get butterflies just saying it), as well as to write, encouraging other women as I encourage myself. Attending this conference would (hopefully) help to clarify what my next season holds, allow me to connect with some amazing women (most of whom I have just recently found in blog land!), and encourage me to take the next step....whatever that might be!

XOXO :)

Anonymous said...

God moves in mysterious ways. I thought my season of "public speaking" had passed. I instead have been focusing on writing, while raising my three lovely daughters. I was completely comfortable with this shift. Several years ago a friend encouraged me to attend a She Speaks conference but the cost was prohibitive. So I put it all in a "past season" category and left it at that. This morning when I read that another scholarship would be offered I felt compelled to read about the details. All while reading I was thinking "this will be so nice for someone else." Then a small voice said "do it." Uh-oh was my first thought, it seems God might want to take me out of my comfort zone. Since then God has led me to scriptures of confirmation that I am to enter this contest. For what purposes I do not know, but I do know that when God speaks and you follow amazing things always happen. Thank you for offering this wonderful opportunity and encouragement to so many women, who like me have a God story to share.
Blessings,
Amy Peterson -average Mom with an AWESOME God!
sweetiepetey@cox.net

Ashley Cloninger said...

On July 20th, 2006, the Lord led me into a wilderness of brokenness I’ve never known before. Everything I held dear, He gently and very quickly stripped away-my calling, my home, my church, my friends, my comfort zone. God brought me to a new arena that was very frightening to me. Being the ultimate Girl Scout, I always prided myself in knowing what was going to happen next. I was serving the Lord but with a prideful resistance. I could have never foretold the pain I learned in this desert wilderness. I was so completely broken and stripped bare of any resemblance of self.
As God ordained each aspect of how the brokenness came forth, I heard His gentle voice speak, “I am going to use your mouth to encourage women. I am going to publish things through you. Where you are is not where you are going and I am getting ready to accelerate things”. I sure wish I could say I believed Him. In the pain and the countless tears of grieving over the life I thought was mine, I was very angry with the Lord and verged on much disrespect toward our Heavenly Father. I tried to bargain with Him that I would do anything, absolutely anything if he would just give me my old life back. I yearned for the familiar for what I thought I needed and even though my calling was crystal clear, I seemed to be paralyzed by fear. Many questions stirred in my mind…How Lord? How are you going to accomplish this calling?
Being completely and utterly honest, at that time, I didn’t even like women. In my past, I have been on the receiving end of spitefulness which included haughtiness, jealously, and fakeness to say the least. Why would you call me away from my love of being a Children'sMinister to encourage women? But Praise God, His ways are always higher than my ways.
These last four years since my calling was revealed, I have experienced God in the most phenomenal ways. I have been an eyewitness to his grace as He is opening door after door to speak, to encourage, and to minister to all women who steal my heart. He alone, spoke Isaiah 61, “you are a planting of the Lord to display my splendor”. And from this verse, my speaking ministry, Unveiling His Splendor, has been launched as I am daily watching God open doors that no man could open. God has supernaturally used many people to bring me to a platform where I can boldly proclaim His truth, His love, and His grace. I no longer expect an ounce of self to bring forth the perfect will of the Lord.
I eagerly await each new door that presents itself and consider it a privilege and an honor to stand on this platform hand in hand with every woman I encounter. With each new speaking event, He is daily teaching me to lean more on the Holy Spirit and less on myself. In the movie Spiderman, Peter Parker’s uncle states "with great power comes great responsibility.” I feel that way about my speaking ministry. I received power when the Holy Spirit came upon me and God has handpicked me for some unknown reason with this precious calling to love on women.
I would consider it a special honor, another open door, if the Lord allowed me to attend this years’ conference. Being a military wife to a husband who deploys six months out of every year, I have learned to not only rely on God's solid word, but to also trust in His timing. I have dreamed of coming to the conference for three years now but to no avail. I know and trust He will perfect those things which concern me and He will keep me in perfect peace as long as I am focused on Him.
I would humbly accept the scholarship and would be thrilled to attend. I know I would glean much information as I come under the authority of the P31 Ministry Team and as a result, would enhance my skills and strengthen my serve :) Pun intended! May God bless you richly as we serve hand in hand with teaching and equipping all women to walk in love, to stand on His powerful truths, and to fulfill our specific purpose. Much love and many hugs.

Unveiling His Splendor,
Ashley Cloninger
cloninge@bellsouth.net
(H) 843-871-9765
(C) 704-408-7340

Nadia said...

For years, God has nudged me to attend She Speaks. For many reasons, I have been unable to go. As my speaking opportunities have grown and my ministry increased, I know that this year, I need to be there.

I have been speaking for 6 years and am grateful to do something I feel so passionately about. It is a blessing to be able to encourage women to live their lives intentionally. Over the years, I have worked to expand this ministry but am now at the point where I need additional help. The sectionals offered at She Speaks teach the very things I need to learn to do. In addition to this, I have begun to write and am eager to pursue publishing so that I can find new ways to encourage and empower women.

This scholarship means so much to me and to our family. Finding a way to afford the conference has been difficult for us. I know, however, that God will not be contained by the constraints of our economy. He is so much bigger than that! I trust Him fully to help me find a way to attend She Speaks this summer and am so grateful for yet another opportunity for a scholarship.

Thank you so much!

Anonymous said...

I have been involved for many years in my local church teaching Sunday School and Girls Club. I have to say that Girls Club ministry is very special to me. About two years ago I began to feel a need for teaching on a deeper level to teenagers and new converts about really connecting with God and developing a personal relationship with Him. I am passionate about teaching Girls Club and working with teenage girls especially because I remember well my teenage years. I remember the life I led and the way I acted, the things I did, and most of all the mistakes that I made. I also remember that, even though I had Christian friends, I never felt compelled to change my ways. I never saw Christians that made me want a relationship with Jesus. I have a passion to see teenagers (and that includes my own three kids, who are not quite at their teenage years yet, but it's not too young to begin) develop a personal relationship with God. I want to see them realize the potential and plan that He has in their lives. I wish that I had realized and developed my own personal relationship with God much earlier. I began working with some outreach ministry two years ago as well. My husband felt a call to begin driving our church van and he started picking up kids around the area of our church. I enjoyed getting to know the kids and working with them, they were special to me. The first "big" project was an Angel Tree in my local church. It was during this time that I first went out into people's homes and met them. It really increased my desire to see mom's and dad's begin to come to church and get saved. God really changed my heart and how I felt about others, and how I felt about myself and what He had blessed me with, when I went into other people's homes and saw how they lived and the situations and problems they dealt with on a daily basis. It is a humbling experience to see living conditions, trials, and problems that people and children are faced with on a day to day basis. I feel that new convert teaching is important, because so many times people get saved, but don't know what to do next. Or, they would like to get saved, but have not been raised in church or even hardly attended church and they just need help in understanding God and His Word. I feel a special desire and need to teach new converts and teenagers about developing their relationship with God. In developing "daily walk" habits of reading their Bible, praying, studying, and living their Christian life. I would like to teach Bible studies. I don't know where to start. You would think a person that is involved in teaching in Sunday School, teaching Girls Club, and in working with young people would know where to start, but I don't. I have been praying, reading, studying, writing, journaling... doing all the things I feel necessary to move forward, but my feet seem stuck. The women of Proverbs 31 are an amazing and inspiring group, and I feel that attending the She Speaks conference would answer questions I have about moving forward and following this calling I feel in my life.

Rebekah Lilly
rebekahlilly@suddenlink.net

Nan Jones said...

Glynnis,

This has been a year of turning for me, transitioning - answering His call. In 1992, the Lord called me to minister to Christian women. He spoke quietly to me about sharing the hope that I have in Him. He showed me a need for women to be established in their faith, to be certain of who they are in Christ. For these past 18 years I have waited on God, for I know that His timing is perfect. I have raised my 3 children, stood by and served alongside my husband as pastor's wife. I have used these 18 years to prepare for this calling, to develop my skills, to learn more and more about the heart of a woman - from God's perspective.

Now is His timing. I have birthed Jubilant Light Ministries - www.jubilantlight.com - founded on Lamentations 3:24, "The Lord is my portion, therefore I hope in Him." I have begun a daily devotional blog, Morning Glory, which serves to teach nuggets of gold from God's Word. He has shown me treasures of Light in dark places. I have a passion - a yearning - that I cannot adequately describe. It never leaves me; it only intensifies.

I believe that everything we do should be done with all of our might - with excellence so as to glorify Him. I need to be taught, my craft needs to be honed. I would benefit greatly by being allowed to attend the She Speaks Conference.

Please consider me for this scholarship. Without it, I am unable to attend.

Thank you for this opportunity,
Nan Jones

Bethany LaShell said...

Yay! Another contest! I'm going to be like the friend in Luke 11:5-13; y'all are going to get so sick of my entering all the She Speaks scholarship contests that you'll eventually award me one! I'm really believing that I need to keep asking for this opportunity because I know I need to be there this year and this is the only way I can manage it (I even live right in Concord, but have never been able to attend).

I'm an accidental speaker. I never set out to speak publicly, although I'm not afraid to be in front of a crowd. I started writing a few years ago (also kind of by accident), and then people started asking me to speak on those same topics. Knees quaking and voice shaking, I have spoken a few times. I have a few more speaking engagements lined up, but I need so much help and direction to move from being an adequate speaker to being an excellent speaker.

Thank you, thank you!

Bethany LeBedz at gmail dot com

Maria Lomeli said...

I have heard of “She Speaks” conference only from Proverbs 31 ministries.
I looked up the information on the web and became very interested very quickly.

When I was a young woman (teenage years) I had a woman minister speak into my life and tell me that I was someday going to tell the world my story, being young and naïve and I had a “Whatever “ attitude and went about my business.
Here it is 15 years later and I remember that day like it was yesterday, because through all the pain and suffering in my life I have recently (2 years) have finally decided to do it God’s way. God has put a book in my heart to write entitled “I’m Nobody’s Secret” It is the story of my life and how God has stamped those very words on my heart and through lots of prayer and counseling I am realizing how valuable my life is to Him.

I have looked at different resources to help me in accomplishing this God dream and because of limited money on my part I know that anywhere I go will only be by His command. Thank you for the opportunity to share. Maria Olvera - Lomeli

Nadia said...

Glynnis,

Thank you so much for your kind email regarding the last scholarship contest. Your well-chosen and gentle words were appreciated.

For years, God has nudged me to attend She Speaks. For many reasons, I have been unable to go. As my speaking opportunities have grown and my ministry increased, I know that this year, I need to be there.

I have been speaking for 6 years and am grateful to do something I feel so passionately about. It is a blessing to be able to encourage women to live their lives intentionally. Over the years, I have worked to expand this ministry but am now at the point where I need additional help. The sectionals offered at She Speaks teach the very things I need to learn to do. In addition to this, I have begun to write and am interested in learning more about publishing so that I can find new ways to encourage and empower women. Every part of this conference speaks exactly to where I am right now in my work for the Kingdom!

This scholarship means so much to me and to our family. Finding a way to afford the conference has been difficult for us. I know, however, that God will not be contained by the constraints of our economy. He is so much bigger than that! I trust Him fully to help me find a way to attend She Speaks this summer and am so grateful for yet another opportunity for a scholarship.

Thank you so much!

Unknown said...

Each day of my life serves a purpose as long as I put my trust in God. He cares about us and our days, and I truly believe He wants us to be blessed.

The world is a mess and people have forgotten how to reach out to God. God has filled me with the desire to minister to women who have lost their way, or maybe just need a little push to get on the right path.

I know I have found a God-Given purpose in my life and a clear goal at which to aim.

I have never attended “She Speaks” nor have I ever had the funds to attend. My husband has been without a steady income since last May, so this will not be the year with a scholarship.

If I win, it would be life-changing and I know the knowledge I would gain would give me the wisdom and the faithful instruction to pursue this heart felt endeavor I so desire. If I don’t I’ll keep on blogging at “My Faithful Living” and will continue to minister the word of God. I want to be a spiritual leader but I am also a spiritual learner. He is in charge! I can only be a tool to accomplish His purpose for us here on earth.

Debbie said...

I love speaking to women! I believe that God uses me to do just that, I have spoken several times to the women here at our church. I have spoken at our annual retreat along with two other ladies every year for the past 5 years. I love to encourage women in their walk with God. I also believe that I am to write, but I don't even have a clue as to how to go about it. I would LOVE the opportunity to come to this conference and learn what a blessing it would be and an honor. Thank you so much for considering me. God Bless, Debbie Myhre

Noel said...

What would it mean to me to attend the She Speaks Conference? The sustaining of new life stirring. The continuation of a mysterious story God has been weaving in dark places. God used a brilliant study on the creative process to clarify my gifts and callings. Doubt has since crept in, telling me that the dreams he stirred in me were just lofty dandelion fluff. “He’s not THAT good. My gifts aren’t THAT valuable.”

If anyone believes in us to the death, it is our mothers. Today mine was fighting tenaciously for me while I dusted her with my doubts and unbelief like the heavy pollen raining down outside my window. Mom mused, “I held you on my lap in church when you were three, and I sensed that God had a special call on your life. My mother’s heart ached as I thought of the suffering it might involve and how it would take you far away.” I listened half-heartedly, pulling up the She Reads blog as I got ready to hang up the phone. Two powerful words arose from the screen. She Speaks. Tears ran at the sound of “my name”. Jesus made me to speak, to read, to write! Mystery still surrounds my story, but I need to tend it with my words, so that when it is full, I will be equipped to share it!

Noel, noelrfagan@aol.com

Jody said...

My name is Jody. I am married to Mike and we have four children. With his permission, I am posting this as entry for the second scholarship to She Speaks.

Mike’s addiction to pornography was exposed in April 2009 and divorce was imminent. We have gone from separated and angry to connected and intimate – due to recovery and support groups, individual spiritual renewals and intense emotional-based counseling.

My husband has been sober for over a year now and has completed Dr. Doug Weiss’s Christian-based 12-steps for sex addicts. He continues to attend his Freedom group and has accountability every day. I have worked through the 12-steps for partners and have attended my support group through this past year as well.

Through this last year of recovery and establishing sobriety, my husband and I have felt God’s call to begin preparing to share our testimony of a restored and healthy marriage through speaking and writing. There is so much we want to share with others!

What is emotional anorexia? How does sexual addiction affect your marriage and the spouse who is addicted as well as the spouse finding out about the addiction? What steps can you take to create proper boundaries? The list could go on and on…

I absolutely know that God has healed our marriage for the purpose of sharing the possibility of healing to those who are hurting and stuck in a relationship where fantasies and airbrushed pictures remain supreme. It is possible to confront this addiction and create a more intimate marriage than you could ever imagine!

I have a hard time finding the adjective I’d like to use to describe the thought of standing in front of a crowd and sharing our testimonies. This experience would be very hard and frightening. I believe Father wants me to attend She Speaks and gain encouragement as well as speaking and writing tips to better enable me as these opportunities arise in the future.

With four children to clothe and feed and a middle class income, the cost of the conference seems out of reach for me. I would appreciate your consideration for a scholarship. Thank you for considering my request.

Leigh said...

My desire is to love God more and better everyday. My desire is to grow as a disciple. My desire is that I will be used for His glory. I pray that He will take this bumbling speaker, and like Moses, God will speak through me. I passionately long for God to take this sinful girl and turn my mistakes, my confusion, and my hurts into something of beauty, called "glory". If it is His will, I would love to learn from more seasoned speakers and writers. Thank you all for making this possible for whomever God blesses with this scholarship.

MomofTwoPotters said...

I would be blessed to attend the She Speaks conference. I entered, but my submission was not the winner. :(

So I am posting a comment to see if I can have another opportunity to follow a dream I have had since I was in high school--to write.

It is difficult being a pastor's wife, as I have to whittle down the things I choose to participate in. I would love to be able to attend a conference such as this to enjoy time with fellow writers and to learn from their experiences.

It's all up to God's will, I know. But I also know He knows the desires of my heart and that He best knows how to use the talents He has blessed me with.

I am a stay at home mom as well as a pastor's wife, so I do not have the means with which to attend this conference. I can only pray that if this is His will for me to continue on to this conference, that He would provide a way that I could attend.

Jennifer said...

Hello-- I would love to attend She Speaks! I have been in a study on finding my mission and it has been a very deep, soul-searching study. One of the questions asked was "what would you do if money were no object and if fear didn't stand in your way?" My answer was to be a courageous, authentic speaker for Christ. I think this conference would be a great opportunity to work toward that goal!

Thanks,

Jennifer
jroba5@yahoo.com

@RestoreMyFamily said...

Thank you for the chance to win a scholarship. I would not be able to attend without help for the conference fee, and so this scholarship would mean so much to me. I do feel called to step out in faith and see what God has for me. He has done so many amazing things in my life and has given me a heart to share with others. I love to connect and to speak with women about their lives and about their relationship with Christ. I would love the chance to gain knowledge and tools on speaking. As this is a random drawing I leave it in God's hands and His timing. Thanks for the chance!

www.jgirlsjourney.blogspot.com said...

What a responsibility! What I first embraced as a passion to speak and write for my loving God, I now hold so very dear to my heart and I want to walk both faithfully and carefully down this path that God has made for me. I know God has called me to speak and write for Him and I taking each little baby step that I can with Him and embracing with this journey every open and closed door—trusting that God knows best and is leading the way.
I have researched ways to sharpen and better equip myself and I have not found anything like “She Speaks.” I have been praying about attending the last couple of years and honestly, the funds are tight and I have not been able to fork the bill on top of the airfare. If I am chosen for this scholarship, I will know that God desires to use the women at the conference to inspire and equip me to serve for His kingdom. To God be the glory, amen.
Julie Lane

Sara Quick said...

I am resigning my teaching job to enter into the field of Women's Ministry at our church. Bascially, I am designing the program from the ground up and need help a lot of help. Without a teaching salary I will need financial assistant (my husband and I have had three girls in college at the same time - our twins are graduating this year so money has been tight). I am desiring to train other women to be leaders as well as lead them myself through workshops that equip them, events that encourage them, and skills that will help them be better evangelists. Blessings on all that you do for the Proverbs 31 Ministry.
Sara Quick saraquick123@yahoo.com

Michelle Sherlin said...

I have been praying for an opportunity to attend a She Speaks conference! I would cherish the blessing of beinga ble to attend. It would be a timely affirmation for me!!
I've been writing for almost exactly a year now on my blog www.afewminuteswithmichelle.com and speaking a bot here and there. I truly feel God's calling to uplift and minister to women.
It has been a very difficult year, O.K. year...maybe life, for me and my family and I feel like the Lord has much to share through my adversity. I would be so grateful for the gift of a scholarship to attend.
Blessings! Michelle

Jane from SC said...

I want to attend the She Speaks conference so badly. This year I made my decision to listen to God and stop furthering my education to teach nursing so I could further my education by reading God's Word and teaching it. What a ride it has been! I know He has great things in store for me and I feel that this conference will get me on my way to reach this journey He wants for me. Please consider me for this scholarship. My husband is not getting enough work even to pay the power bill let alone for me to come to the conference. I know God will provide and am praying that you will choose me for this wonderful opportunity. I had not heard of She Speaks conference until this year and when I felt God has called me to teach His Word to women again (which I did not 14 years and then stopped for 5 years)I felt like this was confirmation to get me on my journey that God has called me on with Him. Reading all these comments on all the blogs - wouldn't it be wonderful if all of us could go and meet each other and with all of us being trained and starting to lead and teach women throughout the United States - there would be GREAT REVIVAL among women!! Wouldn't that be awesome! I am so excited to be a part of all of this whether I am chosen or not to know that I am part of God's chosen women is a great honor!

Janet Morris Grimes said...

Glynnis,

I have been a "closet writer," so to speak, for the past twenty years. It was this past June, after facing unemployment for the first time since I was 15-years-old, that I attended my first ACW Conference. Though I still consider myself a beginning writer, I am making quick progress and currently write for five monthly online publications.(for free, of course) I also will have my first write-for-hire book published later this year for Atlantic Publishing. So, I am pleased with my progress with writing so far.

But it is time to go deeper. Think bigger. Take more chances. To get out of the boat and test the waters and see if Jesus will help me walk on them.

My goal is to share the true stories that can change lives. I long to be able to do this through face to face contact as well as through the written word. I consider this a weakness of mine, and would appreciate the opportunity to attend She Speaks so that I may strengthen my ministry. The testimonials that come from this conference prove that God is very much a part of the process, inspiring those who participate to go further than they ever dreamed possible.

Thank you for your consideration.

Stephanie Shott said...

Hi Glynnis,
Here I am visiting your blog and putting my name in the hat for a scholarship. I have to tell you that about a year ago when I happened across the Proverbs 31 site, I was unexplainably drawn to the ministry.

I've been speaking for over 20 years and involved in ministering to women for about the same length of time, but I'm only about a year into the whole writing thing.

The 2010 She Speaks conference has been on my heart since I learned about it and the only way I know how to express my strong desire to be there is that I believe I'm "supposed" to be there. But, I also know that unless the Lord provides that it isn't in our financial cards this year.

Not only do I sense that I'm supposed to be there, but also that I "need" to be there, as well. I can't explain it. But I'm truly looking forward to how the Lord will use my time at "She Speaks" to change me, to develop me, to give me the opportunity to do one of my favorite things...spend time with like-minded women who long to make a difference for the glory of God.

I'm also inspired by Cec Murphey's generosity! Almost every time I see the opportunity for scholarships to "She Speaks" and to other conferences, they come attached with Cec's name as the benefactor. So thank you, Cec and thank you Proverbs 31 women for offering yet another opportunity for a chance to go to this wonderful conference.

Thanks again for this opportunity!

Eternally His,
Stephanie Shott
Phil 3:7-14
dshott1@msn.com

RefreshMom said...

Glynnis,

Attending She Speaks has been in my heart since my youngest (now 4) was a baby. As a ministry family on the other side of the country, actually getting there has always been out of reach. Even moreso this year as we have no regular source of income (aside from God's gracious and unexpected provision).

God has already been opening doors for me in the writing arena, but I know that as writing opportunities come, speaking invitations are soon to follow. The speaking itself doesn’t intimidate me, but the responsibility of communicating God’s word does.

I sometimes feel like Gideon putting out my fleece, “If I get a scholarship, I’ll take it as confirmation that I’m meant to go.” God has done this in the past when I followed His call to writing. Now the question is whether it’s time to be more intentional about speaking the messages He’s given me.

I’m so glad to know we have a sovereign God who paves the way down these paths that often seem like a dream that He intends to turn into reality. Maybe this year…

Thank you (and Cec--who isn't nearly as curmudgeonly as he claims to be!) for this opportunity. Blessings on all who enter and seek His plan for their ministry.

Mary Hampton

Wander said...

Glynnis
I love the ministry of Proverbs 31 and I've been dreaming of attending She Speaks for several years. My passion is women/teens! I've felt called to speak/lead other's but have battled with fear and confidence. I feel sure that SS is the conference I need to build my skills. Each year, I read all the posts from attendees and get so excited (as if I were there with them). If I could afford to go....I just would sign up. But that hasn't been possible.
Winning would be an answer to prayer. If God wants me there...He will work it out!
I trust Him with my call!

I'm seeing a little of me in your post....I'm anal enough to sit up all night on the toilet seat too!
I want to do my best!

Jenn said...

For as long as I can remember I have felt called to speak for the Lord. The Lord has taught me so much this His love letter in His word and I just can't keep it in. I love speaking to woman and seeing the Holy Spirit move in their hearts. I have been blessed to teach womens conferences all over south asia and in some places in America and find it a true joy. Attending She speaks would be such a dream to recieve training in this calling and I cannot attend without either a scholarship or God's people giving. What an awesome ministry!
Jenn Hand
reachingsouthasia@yahoo.com

Misty A Brown said...

I am very excited to see another opportunity has been presented to give one blessed lady the chance to attend She Speaks. I was a little let down when I realized I missed the last opportunity to participate for a chance to win a scholarship to the conference. I am grateful for this opportunity.

I know I have been called to be a mouthpiece for the kingdom of God. Speaking before an audience, big or small, is not an easy thing to do for most people. As for me, I belong to that group of “most people” I just mentioned. I truly believe She Speaks will arm me with the skills necessary to perfect my speaking ability so that I may go forth with my calling with confidence.

I keep telling myself I am going to attend She Speaks, maybe this year it will become a reality for me.

Thank you.

Misty A Brown
mistybrown01@yahoo.com

Laura P. said...

I'm so excited there is another opportunity for a scholarship! I've been wanting to attend a She Speaks conference for the last two years. Winning the She Speaks scholarship would be an amazing blessing to me and would allow me to finally get the direction I need to get to the next level in my speaking goals, as well as be a clear indicator to me that this is where God wants me at this point in my life. Thank you so much for the opportunity.

The Perry Family said...

I can honestly say that I've been in the Refiner's fire for the last few months. But God does nothing without purpose. I would love to learn more about sharing what God is teaching me and feel called to attend this conference. I signed up for the conference's blog to find out when registration began, but haven't been able to register, so this scholarship would make that possible. If it's His will, I KNOW I'll be there!
Christy Perry
christyperry@embarqmail.com

Anonymous said...

For 9 1/2 years I have walked the road of breast cancer treatment. I have had the disease five times during this time, but my story is not about cancer. It is about God's amazing grace, love, provision, strength, comfort, peace,and joy in the midst of the battle. I love sharing all He is and all He has done for my family during this journey. I believe God wants me to speak and write about my story to encourage others with the hope He offers in every situation. I passionately desire to attend She Speaks with my 15-year-old daughter, but we cannot afford it. If it is God's desire for us to attend, He will make a way. He always does. I thank God for Proverbs 31 Ministries and the opportunity to apply for this scholarship!

SJ Johnson
sheri511@cox.net

Angel77 said...

Winning a scholarship for She Speaks would be a confirmation from God that writing and speaking is the ministry that God has for me. I love the work that P31 does and since I have began following it and the ladies involved I have had a heart and a dream to become a part of this ministry or one like it.

I've been searching for the ministry that God has for my life and I feel that being at home is a big part of that but I also feel that it is not the only thing God has in store. I cannot wait to see if She Speaks is a part of His divine plan for my page in His history.

I've entered every contest that has come available and this would be an exciting way to top it off - to win by chance - His chance!

Thank you for every opprotunity that you have shared. Thank you for your time and hours of pouring over articles and blogs and now comments!
You ladies are awesome and you are awesome because of Him!

Angel77 said...

Winning a scholarship for She Speaks would be a confirmation from God that writing and speaking is the ministry that God has for me. I love the work that P31 does and since I have began following it and the ladies involved I have had a heart and a dream to become a part of this ministry or one like it.

I've been searching for the ministry that God has for my life and I feel that being at home is a big part of that but I also feel that it is not the only thing God has in store. I cannot wait to see if She Speaks is a part of His divine plan for my page in His history.

I've entered every contest that has come available and this would be an exciting way to top it off - to win by chance - His chance!

Thank you for every opprotunity that you have shared. Thank you for your time and hours of pouring over articles and blogs and now comments!
You ladies are awesome and you are awesome because of Him!

Kandee said...

I heard the Holy Spirit speak to my heart to attend She Speaks while attending a Ladies Retreat where Lysa spoke. I am trying to follow His leading, but because I left my job to finish school to enter ministry as I knew God was calling me to, there are no funds available in our budget. I have started to try and raise the money for a scholarship and the Lord has provided the money for my plane ticket (which i booked). I know that I know that I know God will provide a way for me to be there, I wonder if this scholarship give-a-way is it. We'll have to wait and see. My prayer is that, and I know it will happen, who ever God has in mind to win this will! Praise God for providing for us all in His way in His time!!

Sweet Vidahlia said...

I had been in an abusive marriage for 4 years, and upon his moving out of the home, I discovered that he had also molested our daughter. To make things even more chaotic, I was babysitting 2 wonderful children whose mother left them in my care to move out of town with my newly-estranged husband. Just like that, I was an instant mother of 4 at 23 years of age.

I am now happily married to the father of my step-children. We have recently suffered the loss of our youngest child, but God has bound the rest of the family together in a way that most can never imagine or understand.

To date, my release in all of this has been my writing. I write what God speaks to me through Scripture; I capture the funny and frustrating moments of life on paper with hopes of someday having them published.

I feel that through my life experiences, God has opened the doors to a ministry for me. There are so many hurting people who are just looking for someone who has been there and survived! My local church seems to feel that I should just settle for rejoicing in God's deliverance; I don't feel that this is enough. I need to share God's healing power with others.

I am sure that there are those who are equally deserving who will be applying for this contest. I pray that God provides guidance to those awarding the prize - that you will appoint the woman HE wants. May God bless each applicant. :-)

Anonymous said...

I would love the opportunity to attend the She Speaks conference. It would be my step out in faith to show God that I'm ready and willing! Thanks!

Melissa Reynolds
reynolds212@hotmail.com

Emily Roten said...

My heart for speaking to women started at the age of 19 when I began teaching a 7th and 8th grade girls Sunday school class. Over the next 10 years God allowed me to share my heart, and desire for women to find their complete satisfaction and fulfillment in Christ alone, and challenge them to get into the word DAILY!! My ministry took a very interesting turn in 2005 when I got married and revisited an issue in my life that I had known about since I was 13. I found out as a teen that I could never have children (details a little long so just leaving it at that). Since that day I had always planned on adopting my children and my AMAZING husband was very much on board. After our first year of marriage feeling of inadequacy krept in and I began to struggle with "why" God worked through His word and my sweet husband and in 2008 we adopted out PRECIOUS daughter Celeste, and in 2009 another daughter Olivia. We are a multi-racial family or daughters being african american and us being about as white as they come. The struggles of infertility, the joys and heartache of adoption and the hilarious, and thought provoking moments that being a multi-racial family brings I HAVE GOT TO SHARE! Speaking scares me because I don't want it to be about me but the message God has given me (which HE is still revealing to me). THAT my dear P31 LADIES is why I would be THRILLED and delighted to attend "She Speaks" My husband is an associate pastor at a local church (input financial hardship here) and talked starting an adoption ministry (at some point in the future) where we share with anyone who will listen what God has done and how he has changed OUR lives through adoption and to encourage others to support adoption in general any way they can. I feel attending She Speaks will begin the path to me refining what God would have me say and how to say it.
WOW - can you tell I"m excited! Going for the longest comment known to man or woman ;-) Praise God for what He is doing through P31!
Emily R
eroten@godspotters.com
www.spoiledroten.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

Glynnis,
I have longed to attend the She Speaks Conference for the past 2 years but have not been able to due to lack of funding and/or ability to take time off from my job. However, I feel this is the year the Lord has said “yes” and that He will provide for me to attend. I am a pastor’s wife and would like to hone my speaking skills. I also lead the women’s ministry here (and teach Sunday School, lead worship with the Praise Team, teach VBS crafts, etc.) and I am sure any encouragement you can give me would be a help to our ministry here. Thank you for the opportunity for a scholarship.

Michele Zampogna
ml.zampogna@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

Hello, I love all the Proverbs 31 devotions! They always inspire me and I have forwarded them on to others. I enjoy writing. I have always done this for many years. But over the last few years I have had the privilege of leading a small ladies group in my church called Leading Ladies. This year God gave me the opportunity to hold my own ladies retreat with another local church of about 13 women. I was so nervous but I know now it was in His plan. I realized that weekend God is opening the door for me. I say this because I know I am called to speak. I had the fear for many years I could not do it because I had no education other than being a high school graduate and I am not a Pastor’s wife. I am over that fear Praise the Lord! I desire to receive from leaders the structure and the wisdom in speaking at church events. I have been serving under a ministry in and out of my church that speaks to women. This would mean so much to me to win the scholarship to the She Speaks Conference. I believe this will teach me and draw me closer to the will of God for my life. I cannot afford to pay for the conference. I am in the process of having fundraisers now for my kids to do their dreams and mom has to be put on the back burner sometimes.  But I am so hungry and humble for direction in my faith walk that I know coming to this conference will help me to spread what I learn with many other women. I have a story to tell and I know God wants me to get it out. I am a miracle to even be alive and to have a successful marriage and family at that! I know it’s all in God’s timing for when He wants me to speak and the doors of opportunity are opening up even as I type. Thank you for considering me for this scholarship. If I don’t get it, I know God will bless the one who does receive it. And may she walk out her purpose and calling to be the woman of God she is called to be!

Serving HIM,
Robin Shockley
Greenville SC
Sfam34@charter.net
robins@reaganrealtygroup.com

Anonymous said...

Winning the She Speaks Conference Scholarship means the Lord is bringing me one step closer to the desire of my heart - to Speak.
To Speak to the many about what He has done for me and what He can do for all who call upon His name.
I know this conference would equip me with the skills needed to go forth into His great creation.
Thank you for this opportunity.
Colleen M. Geyer
VaGeyers@aol.com

Toni Ryan said...

No one was less equipped than I..... Along with four others, I was selected by my peers and Pastor for reasons I could not fathom to be a leader in our single's ministry. Not long into our new ministry I was asked by one of the other ministry leaders to co-lead a women's small group with her. Much to my surprise, after the first meeting, the other leader bailed and left me floundering around trying to figure out how in the world I was going to lead this group of women all by myself. Please understand, I had absolutely no leadership experience or training. I had not even ever been involved with a small group before! What on earth was God thinking???? That was 12 years ago. I am a shinning example of the phrase I've grown to love and live by. "God does not call the equipped, He equips the called." I have been a small group leader and coach of other leaders for all of these years and owe it all to God's vision for who He wants me to be and how He wants me to serve those he places in my path. Speaking to others and writing about God's grace and mercy is something He has placed in my heart for a very long time.
The opportunity to attend She Speaks would be a huge gift. As I wrote in another post, I feel somewhat selfish for even trying to win a scholarship. There are so many deserving women to choose from. I pray God's will for each of us as He has placed a desire to lead and bless others with the talent we all wish to improve upon.

Thank you so much!!

Toni Ryan
toni@safeharborinsurance.net

Anonymous said...

I have never attended She Speaks but it has been a dream of mine for a few years. I believe the Lord is telling me that this is my year! My husband is a pastor and I work in ministry so this scholarship would be such a blessing to me! As my kids are getting older, I sense that the Lord is preparing me for the next season of life which I know will include more speaking. Receiving this scholarship would be a huge step in being trained and equipped for the call on my life as God's Word is "as a fire shut up in my bones" and I feel compelled to share truth through speaking.

Anonymous said...

Hi,
Over the past few months the Lord has put on my heart to speak to teen girls my age. (i am 13) When i had heard of She Speaks i had been praying that God would make his way clear and show me the next step. as soon as i said that my mom walked in and said "i sent you a link go read it" it was the link to She speaks. as soon as a read the information i wanted to attend. I have started writing but i dont feel like writing can show the emotion you want, since its just words on paper. there is no way i can attend with out gods intervention i would have to get two tickets one for me one for an adult to attend with me. that would be almost $900. thank you for this opportunity!
Audrey Beers
A17thstar@aol.com

NRS Ministries said...

When I was five years old I was in a beauty/talent contest. I remember being asked this question, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" I said, "I want to be a singer and a dancer." An achievable idea for a five year old, right? Well, I amnot five years od anymore and I never made it to Broadway, but God has led me on a wild and rewarding ride that isn't over yet! I am a singer, but I sing for His glory and I started using my singing and speaking talents solely for His purpooe about three years ago. I entered the She Speaks contest because I have been interestedin attending for about two years, but becauseof health reasons and finances, I could not attend. So, when I heardof this scholarship offer I really felt calledto pursue it. I do feel like I can expand my territory and really makemy dream a reality by attending the She Speaks conference. I know I have the ability and a God given talent, aka"the gift of gab." I would love to be a part of this awesome experience and to grow and learn from some incredible women. If I were to answer the question of, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" I would answer now, "Well, I am a child of God, but I know he isn't through withme yet!" Thank You for a chance at this opportunity-Nicole Simkins

Anonymous said...

As I type this comment, I'm full of pain and sadness. It appears the Lord is testing me or training me in the areas of loss and long suffering. Testing or training.... Right now I don't know that one is any better than the other.

I know what the words of Galatians 6:9 read, and I also know, without a doubt, that I'm so close to fainting.

I'm the last person who would ever voluntarily want to speak, but I felt the call to speak to women many years ago. My story, my path toward speaking has been much like Renee Swope’s, as described in her post. I wrote my first Bible study and led a small group of women through it back in 2008/2009. Looking back, I've never been happier than I was during the time I did this.

Just days ago I sat with a friend who was preparing to bury her father. She was a member of that small group in 08. She told me I have no idea how much she talks about and references our nine months together. Listening to her speak of how God used me (a flawed leader and wannabe speaker) and the lessons I penned out of the depths of my own life to impact her life even during this time of loss and pain somehow refueled my desire to speak, teach, and lead women. Somehow...in the midst of my own pain the ministry of my heart took on a face. It became real.

I've entered a previous scholarship contest for this conference. When I didn't make the winners circle I chalked it up as another loss and God moving me away from my quest for validation. I've wanted to attend the conference for at least the past 6 or 7 years. At the end of the day, I believe I'm just thirsty to be around other women who share my passion for pouring into the lives of our sisters. I saw the announcement for the scholarship for writers, and although writing is a large part of my calling, today out of the abundance of my heart my mouth wants to speak.

I realize the winner will be randomly chosen, but I know God already knows the outcome. Maybe it truly isn't for me to attend this year, but I won't stop until the conference doors open and I do or do not walk through. Then and only then will I know God's perfect will. In the meantime, I'll continue striving to speak.

Mari said...

I'm just a small town Pastor's wife who loves to share with humor and transparency things learned through life in the trenches, the fish bowl, and the home...oh wait, a pastor's home is the trenches and the fish bowl. My bad. : ) I sing, I write, I speak…all on a small scale thus far but I am eager to leap out of the nest and fly. A chance to attend a conference of the awesome caliber of She Speaks would bless me beyond my imagination...and I have a pretty big imagination.
Mari
http://www.marilavell.com/

Anonymous said...

I am new to Proverbs 31 Ministries and even newer to the She Speaks Conference. Since discovering P31 I have continued to come back day after day and I was ecstatic when I learned about She Speaks!

I am a young woman who is whole-heartedly seeking God's will for my time on this earth. I work as a dietitian and absolutely love encouraging and inspiring people to make wise choices that will allow them to lead more fulfulling, productive lives. Since coming into my field I have been praying that God would reveal how he wants to use my training to glorify His name. God has slowly but strongly laid on my heart that he desires for me to use my passions to speak to fellow believers and inspire them to approach their relationship with food and their bodies much differently than what our culture promotes.

Receiving this scholarship would mean so much in helping fulfill this calling because it would give me the training to take what God has taught me and package it into compassionate, God-centered messages that inspire His people!

Erica Hanson
ericahanson@uwalumni.com

Kristi Stephens said...

Thank you so much for this additional giveaway!

I have felt so strongly that I need to be at She Speaks this year - the only reason I haven't registered yet is money!

I am passionate both about speaking and writing - I've been teaching Bible studies in my local church for several years now, creating them from my Bible training at Cedarville University and from my own study of the Scriptures. It has been EXCITING to see how God has been transforming lives through women getting into the Word on a deeper level!

After teaching for a while, God opened opportunities for me to speak at several womens' retreats through our church. About the same time, I began blogging and have been stunned to see how God has grown and used this little "ministry" from my living room.

At this point in my life, God is opening doors for me to continue teaching, writing, and speaking - and I would love to glean from the wisdom and training at the Proverbs 31 conference!

Thank you again for the opportunity!

Anonymous said...

Glynnis,

A very close friend first introduced me to Proverbs 31 Ministry. I was going through a vital trial in my life. She read one of the daily devotionals and emailed it to me. She felt that I needed the encouragement that day. It was encouraging. Soon after that, I received another emailed devotional from my friend. Again, she felt I needed encouragement and again, I was. I decided to sign up for the daily devotionals and get them emailed directly to me. I am so glad I did. On many occasions I have been inspired, motivated, encouraged, and equipped with God's Word. It has been refreshing to read about real life stories from other Christian women.

Over the past few years, probably close to about eight or nine years now, I have been slowly pursuing what I believe God is calling me to do for Him: write and speak. I want to encourage others (especially women) to trust Jesus, live for Him, and believe in the power of Him. No matter what, He is good.

It has been a journey I have needed encouragement and focus to succeed. God has provided this every step of the way. I completed my bachelor's degree in communication studies in 2009 and just got accepted into a graduate school program for a master's of art in communication. I know this traditional educational is a necessary part of my journey.

When I saw last week the "She Speaks" conference information, I was again encouraged. This is so awesome that this type of conference is being put together. In the years I have known about Proverbs 31 Ministry, I never seen this before. It just lifted my spirit to know there are people out there helping train others to pursue and live out their dreams, their calling of writing and speaking. I am one of those.

I have never attended a "She Speaks" conference, but it would be amazing to be trained and mentored by others who have been traveling this path already. As I entered the writing contest, I knew it was a long shot, but I also knew it was time to take that risk and put my writing out there for others to read besides professors. I did not win, but I am so thankful I submitted my article. I will continue to work on that article. It is worth the effort. It is worth telling others about.

Now, I have another opportunity to win a chance of attending the “She Speaks” conference. This is very exciting. No matter whether I get to the conference this year or not, I will continue to pray for the Proverbs 31 Ministry team, the training, and the conference so that God's will be done for whoever does attend. Plus, I will keep writing and pursuing His calling on my life.

Thank you for putting in all the time and effort to help others become what God has called them to do for Him.

In Christ’s love,
Michelle Barringer
mrbarringer1@mac.com

Anonymous said...

My heart cries out, "Please, God!!!" But I know that if this is not His timing, I can continue to wait, delight myself in Him, and expect doors to open in other ways. This has been my lifelong dream--to influence others toward Jesus through speaking and writing. I appreciate the chance for this scholarship and it's great to know that He has great plans to use all of us!
Heather Senter
h.senter@mgcswarriors.org
Warner Robins, Ga

Kim said...

Experience flying on an airplane--zero
Experience traveling 1400 miles--zero
Speaking experience--zero
Writing experience--zero
Love for the Lord and a desire to be taught--I'm the girl!

2 Kings 18:5
Hezekiah trusted in the Lord, the God of Israel. There was no one like him among all the kings of Judah, either before or after his time.

Thanks for the opportunity to try for another scholorship!

Blessings on you all!

Unknown said...

I felt useless for the kingdom, so I began to pray daily that God would show me where, when, and how He wanted to use me. He asked me to speak at an all day retreat for young women. I was scared silly, but three days in the belly of a whale wasn’t very appealing either so I said yes. Then he sent me to give a talk on live television. I read the whole book of Jonah . . . and said yes again. When I received my third invitation to speak, I went to the She Speaks website. The conference sounds like a perfect fit, but our check book said no. I’m laying it in God’s hands. If He wants to use Cec to get me there, then God is good. If He sends someone else, then . . . God is still good.

Anonymous said...

It is amazing how God works in each of our lives! I was reading Lysa’s blog and noticed the She Speaks scholarship offer. I was not familiar with the conference, but as I read the through the site I found myself excited and filled with anticipation. Our God has awesome plans for each of us and my journey has been amazing!
I felt called to ministry when I was 14; I am now 41. The journey has led me to seminary, a Masters in Christian counseling, and now I am in a season of motherhood to two beautiful children under the age of five.
Over the last year, I have on several occasions felt the Lord directing my steps toward a speaking ministry. Recently, I was approached by our local Baptist Association about doing a mini-conference on mentoring to our area churches. I am also the lay director of Women’s Ministry at my church. I love pouring out into the woman of my church and long to use the gifts God has given me to lead others to healing and wholeness in Christ.
I am not certain how this ministry will look at this point, just waiting on God to make the path straight and clear. I am excited about the possible opportunity to attend this conference and sharpen my speaking skills and connect with others who have the same calling. Hoping to see everyone at She Speaks, but trusting my Jesus for the right timing.
His,
Cherie Orange
creeor@gmail.com

Shannon Lee said...

As a young, teenage girl I stumbled across God's timeless wisdom for women as wives and mothers found in Proverbs 31:10-31. That "awakening" became the desire of my heart from my youth onward...although I would bump and tumble to a fantastic fall to my face before the Lord before I would realize it.

The summer of 1998 I found myself pregnant, but unwed. Pride shattered and prostrate before the Lord, my Redeemer cleansed me, forgave me, clothed me, and began restoring me (Psalm 51). He granted me a willing spirit to sustain me and garbed me in everlasting joy (Psalm 30).

God's blessings for obedience began to overflow. A month and 18 days later I married my best friend, soul mate, and the daddy of my first son, "Gift from God." The Lord reassured me that he could STILL use me and I prayed as King David did, "Lord, let me teach transgressors your ways." He initially confirmed His word with an instant ministry to a young mom with a story just like mine.

In 2003 the Lord placed the call on my heart to write for Him. He has confirmed His call in more ways and encounters than I can count or name. He has shown me who I am and who I am not. Not one step or season I have lived in has returned void. Rather, God has grown and groomed me for greater things He has set for me ever since He called me. Like Abraham who believed God's promise, the Lord has asked me, "Do I believe Him that the Almighty WILL accomplish this?"

I remember my Lord, the Promise-keeper. Not ONE of His good promises has ever failed. He knows what I need before I ask. Before a word is even on my tongue, He is there. He KNOWS me completely. Hearkening back, I can trace His hand in my life, connecting the dots He has set for me. My Lord has never left me. His presence, promises, and protection are mine. He is FAITHFUL.

I answer, "Yes, Lord. I BELIEVE you." I ask and pray. I wait. I study His word. I connect with the Lord as His Holy Spirit guides, convicts, and teaches me. He shows me my "next step". I cling to the word He spoke to my heart, "The one who calls you IS FAITHFUL, and HE WILL DO IT." 1 Thessalonians 5:24

Just today I asked the Lord to clarify my "next step" for ministry. As if the "green light" from my amazing husband and dual support of my Little Mama and mother-in-love ("My Naomi"), discovering this scholarship opportunity tonight was nothing short of God's impeccable timing. A gift trip to my first She Speaks conference would be yet another confirmation from my Lord that I am keeping in step with His Spirit. While I make plans in my heart, the Lord directs my steps. Praise Him!

Shannon Lee Cochran
mscochran@austin.rr.com

Jenna Berthoud said...

Many Thanks to everyone who is making a scholarship even possible! Learning that God has called me to speak has been a gradual process. I was not raised in the faith. Rather I've been in some of the darkest places. Places only a loving Father like our Lord would dare go and find me. He has time and again made a way where there was not one.

The first time I spoke publically was to a very small group and the feed back was great, however, I found myself so ill-equipped. I long to be instructed. I just need some Titus women to show me the way.

The thought of being around women that can help me direct the gifting God has given me is so very exciting. Further more the thought of being equipped to rattle the gates of hell and see others set free by the power of the testimony He has made me free by,....well that just lites my fire. If that don't well, my wood may just be wet! =]

Thank you so much a for a chance!
Serving Him
Jenna Berthoud

Anonymous said...

I am a teenager and have a passion for sharing God with others, especially those of my generation. I want to make a difference and feel God is calling me to speak and write about all He has taught me and how He has changed my life. Through my mom's cancer journey, I have gotten to know Him better and have learned to trust Him more. As believers we should have the skills to be the best in presenting our message to others. It would mean so much to me to learn how to better communicate. I don't believe God wants me to wait until I'm an adult to minister to others. I am praying for His provision for me to attend this conference if it is what He wants for me this year. Thank you for the opportunity to apply:-)

LJ
kajohnsonaz@hotmail.com

Anita said...

To be able to attend the She Speaks conference means that perhaps my husband would stop giving me books for special occasions, including Christmas and birthday, which are only one day apart, telling me how to become a better speaker, or a communicator whose message sticks, and how to make it through the dip! Don't get me wrong, I love my husband and love that he wants to see me succeed in this calling God has given me. He is truly my greatest cheerleader, coach, and resource! However, I am a woman and love to be around other women, so for me it would be a whole lot more fun to come and hang out with women who have the same passion and calling and learn together...rather than try to get through the first chapter of the last three books he's bought me!

Seriously, God has called me to speak and in this season He is asking more of me in this calling. More discipline, more time, more learning! She Speaks would be a great way for me to develop even more as a speaker and to learn all those "things" from those who are much more ahead of me. Obviously, the scholarship is needed, otherwise my sweet husband would've sent me rather than buying the books:) Thanks for the opportunity to come and learn!

Anita McGinnis
www.trophyofgraceministry.blogspot.com

Julie Lavender said...

Just this week, I spoke to my women’s Rejoice Bible Study on creating faith moments with our children. Though I’ve shared this message three times in the last three years with different groups at my church, I’m never quite “comfortable” speaking to my peers. My hands sweat, my heart races, and my voice cracks! But, God still blesses, and many moms thank me afterwards for some fresh ideas to carry out in their own homes. I would love to attend the She Speaks conference to better equip me to share the messages God gives me. I give Him all the credit for any creativity that I possess, and therefore would love to share His ideas with others through possible speaking opportunities.
Julie Lavender
lavenders@bulloch.net

Anonymous said...

A little over a year ago, I attended a writing intensive led by Cec Murphey. In a short amount of time, I realized I was being instructed by a very gifted writer (and speaker), one who cared passionately for those desiring to impart God’s words to others. I pray that the one chosen to receive this generous scholarship will glorify God, bless other women incredibly, and put a smile on Cec Murphey’s face! I would be delighted to attend the She Speaks conference to learn how to do just that!
Julie Lavender
lavenders@bulloch.net

Kimberly said...

My passion is Speaking. Imparting wisdom, knowledge and power to those in the audience as the Holy Spirit directs my path. Speaking to women; encouraging them; letting them know that there is someone out there that gets what they are going through, that cares and is there for them is the call on my life. I am a survivor of this world we live in. I have survived sexual abuse, domestic violence, self-loathing, hatred and the desire to end it all until I found God. Truly found Him. Let him in my life and embraced the love that He so freely gives me. I am at a point in my life where I yearn with all my heart to take all that I have learned and impart it into others. I want to laugh with them; cry with them; and grow with them as they embark on a deeper, closer relationship with Him. Being able to attend She Speaks! will get me one step closer to the dream.

kdchristian44@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

She Speaks

Wow, it is amazing to see how God is working in and through the hearts of so many women He is calling to speak.

God saved my life from the hands of a very violent and abusive marriage. I was saved and called into His leadership army within the same year. He spoke to my heart saying “all things work together for good for those who love God, who are called according to His purpose” Romans 8:28. Even though I knew this truth, I still felt as though I was in the “March of The Unqualified and the Unworthy”. Over the years He has reminded me that Moses and countless others formed His leadership army then and the call is no different now. For as He calls thus He equips…God spoke to my heart and said you are unconditionally loved, emotionally healed, and made whole. Remember my daughter there is not an affliction beyond My conviction. Your responsibility is to be 4 real to be healed.

I began serving with a local domestic violence shelter teaching cooking classes and sharing my testimony. I served within this organization for eight years. God expanded my territory and I served on a local governance board that supports domestic violence initiatives. At my former home church I served in the health care ministry where I was asked to speak/share my testimony at several events. God expanded my territory again and I worked and shared my testimony to survivors of violence in Celebrate Recovery.

In 2008 God called me to write devotion about my life experiences on this journey with Him. He spoke to my heart sweetly, that the devotions would become topics/platforms for my speaking ministry. In 2009, God created two open-door opportunities for me to speak. One was at a local college where five women who are walking with Christ shared their personal testimonies of surviving violence and God’s calling on their lives. The other opportunity came from a dear friend who was led a women’s ministry at her church. With God’s leading she purchased my ticket and paid me a nominal fee. I spoke at her women’s conference and the topic was Unconditionally Loved, Emotionally Healed, and Made Whole.

It has been a year since I last spoke. I have continued to write and develop the speaking platforms for which God is directing me. I am follower of your ministry and have prayed for three years to attend your conference. Finances have prevented me. I realize that God will complete His plan in His timing. This opportunity for Proverbs 31 She Speaks conference is God’s open-door opportunity to expand my territory once again. To allow me to be in the company of women that are called to speak, write, and teach His word and increase His Kingdom for His glory.

Joan Taylor
Jtaylor349@aol.com

Unknown said...

My God has great plans for me and my family, it has been a desert walk for about 10 years but He has been so faithful taking me step by step in the direction He desires for my life. It was just impressed upon my heart in the last weeks about public speaking and been confirmed by God through someone else. I truly desire to share more of Him and less of me. Thank you for this awesome opportunity.

Barbara Martin

Anonymous said...

First of all thanks to all of the servant hearts at P31 Ministries. You are honest and encouraging and I hope to have the opportunity to meet you soon.

God has placed a strong desire in me to share His love, hope and faithfulness with others. Though I've faced, wrestled, and walked through many trials, I have this uncontainable JOY in my heart!! I'm ready to share if God's ready to use me!!!

Pamela
pamela.north@seahec.net

Marti Pieper said...

Words matter because people matter more. God called me to the ministry of writing long ago. But as I’ve grown in Him, He’s helped me to view my words as a vehicle to connect people with the One who loves them more than they can imagine. And I believe He intends to use both my written and my spoken words to accomplish His purposes.

As He’s grown my writing, He’s expanded my speaking opportunities. That’s why I began to pray about attending She Speaks. My husband, like many others, has faced the heartbreak of job loss this year. As important as the conference is, family obligations come first. A scholarship would allow me to attend.

I know the One who calls me to speak and to write is faithful. I’ll trust Him to meet the needs of all who enter. Thanks for offering She Speaks along with the scholarship opportunities. And because both words and people matter, I’m grateful.

He Lifts Me Up said...

I believe that God is my Father and that He has always been with me, protecting me and guiding me through the deepest, darkest and most despairing circumstances in my life. Sadly to say, it has been during these most vulnerable times in my life that I fell away from God. But being God, He was always there and found a way to bring me back into His grace. I do not know where God is leading me or what His plan is for my life, however, I do believe that God has been actively encouraging me to dig deeper into His Word for His purpose in my life. I do not know if I have the abilities, knowledge, skills, characteristics or work experiences to be selected for the "She Speaks Scholarship." But I do know that God is my Father and that I love Him with all of my heart. Perhaps some of my life stories, actions and outcomes, might help someone else to find their way back to God. It would be the greatest honor of my life to be selected to attend the "She Speaks" conference and training and allowed to study and grow among such a dynamic group of Godly women.
God bless each of us.
Take care,
Marilyn Fielding
mefielding@aol.com

"All of us like sheep have gone astray, each of us has turned to his own way" (Isaiah 53:6 NAS)

"What do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go to look for the one that wandered off? And if he finds it, I tell you the truth, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off." (Matthew 18:12-13 NIV)

Anonymous said...

As a breast cancer survivor at the age of 35 and a SAHM with 2 small children, I felt God calling me. I have been invited to speak at large events about my experience. Never having an opportunity to attend a conference like She Speaks, I told the Lord that the Holy Spirit will have to speak through me or provide me with the gumption.
Thank you for this opportunity.
Shelley Rindfuss
mrindfuss@columbus.rr.com

Anonymous said...

I have an ache to bring hope (real hope) to hurting hearts. Trully, I have a lot to learn and am not wise but along the way I have begun to learn how good and faithful God is,and how dearly He loves us. I ache to share that in any way possible. I also have had a love for public speaking since I was young. The dream of sharing God's faithfulness and love has been on my heart for a long time. I just haven't known what to do with it, other than sharing with people in my life. I've never been to the conference and probably won't be able to attend without a scholarship. It would be a treat to be considered for this scholarship. Thanks for your time.
sarah_gillaspie@yahoo.com

Lake Lady said...

I have thought about this and all I can think of to say is that women are important to me. My heart is for women - all women - the young woman who has been raised in the Church, never leaving it, yet doesn't realize that she needs a personal relationship with our Savior. Also the young woman who rebelled and is the prodigal daughter - she wants to come home but he just oesn't know how. These are just two examples of those women that I want to tell of God's love and love them to Him.

Lynn said...

I'd love to attend She Speaks and share with you how you've encouraged me. I started public speaking in third grade on the lunch room table. My manners have improved since then but I know I have MUCH to learn. In third grade I tried to stand up to some bullies. Today I want to speak up against human trafficking and share the great things God has done for me.

Wifeof1Momof4 said...

Glynnis, I was NOT prepared for that story. lol
I'm stepping out on faith by leaving a comment, but I want to do what God tells me to do. I have wanted to attend SheSpeaks for several years now, but have talked myself out of the opportunity every single year. This year, God provided a major healing of a brain tumor for my son (7yr journey) and I told the Lord when this whole ordeal started that I would shout from the rooftops at everything He allowed and did. I have done that within our "comfort zone" circle, but after he completely HEALED my son 2 months ago, I have felt the Holy Spirit telling me I should share Jordan's journey with woman across the country. He did NOT heal Jordan just for me and my family, but also for others. He provided a modern miracle for my son and demonstrated that He is still in the healing business, but most of all that we should trust Him with our lives, our decisions, our thoughts, our husband and our families. Throughout this ordeal, I have learned to TRUST HIM, just as he says in Proverbs 3:5,6 - - Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not to thine own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and will direct your paths.

Thank you,

Jai@wifeof1momof4
wifeof1momof4@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

I have never attended a She Speaks conference but would love to go! I hold with an open hand any "calling" God may fulfill for me to have more opportunities to speak.

Teaching and challenging women to deeper, more significant living is really enjoyable for me, and I feel His pleasure when He can use me in that role. I also know it is a big and humbling responsibility, so I do not take it lightly.

Rachel Schaus
rschaus@pobox.com